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Effective parenting in your post-divorce family

| May 7, 2019 | Uncategorized |

While divorce is often a heart-wrenching process, it may be the best option for you, your spouse and your children. Still, divorce may take a toll on your kids’ emotional wellbeing. By focusing on being a good parent, you help your kids adjust to a new way of life. 

Going through a divorce can be challenging for anyone. If you have children, though, your divorce may be downright frightening. Fortunately, you do not have to leave your parenting to chance. With some effort, you can likely make the transition easier for your kids. Here are four ways to parent effectively in your post-divorce family: 

1. Find some normalcy 

Children of divorced parents often struggle to fall into a routine. Still, most pediatricians and child psychologists think normalcy is an essential component in raising good kids. Therefore, your children should not think of your home as a vacation from real life. Instead, they should follow rules, have a set bedtime, do chores and otherwise behave like children. 

2. Keep communication open 

Your kids may tend to focus on what is immediately in front of them. When spending time with your former partner, your kids may seem to forget about you. By continuing to communicate with your children through phone calls and text messages, you help bridge the gap between parenting times. Of course, you must be sure you comply with the terms of your parenting plan or parenting-time agreement. 

3. Create a home environment 

Like most children, your kids probably prefer what they know best. If you have moved into a new home, your young ones may think your house is less fun than their other parent’s residence. To combat this, try to create a homelike environment. If you can, give your kids their own space, and ask them to help you decorate it. 

4. Allow yourself to make mistakes 

Divorce can be unbelievably stressful for every member of your family. You must be careful not to be too hard on yourself, though. Until you and your children adjust to a new way of life, give yourself some room to make mistakes. Often, parenting after divorce requires a trial-and-error approach. 

If a divorce is best for you and your family, you must work to help your children through the process. Fortunately, most kids are resilient. With a bit of planning and the right attitude, you can be a great parent for your post-divorce family.