The holiday season is here and with it can be some difficult times ahead based on your custody agreement. Even if you and your children are going to be together for one holiday, there's a higher likelihood that you won't see them on another. As a parent, it can be...
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Month: November 2019
Don’t let lies derail your divorce
When people go through divorce, some can be tempted to stray from the truth. They might do so out of fears about their financial future, worry for the children or bitterness toward an ex.However, lying during a divorce is never a good idea. Not only can it be illegal,...
Fighting with your ex about your child? Don’t make these mistakes
Sharing custody of your child with your ex can be difficult, particularly when parents are contentious or are still adjusting to the custody arrangement.Some people will eventually find stable ground and co-parent peacefully; others face ongoing challenges. In either...
How do the courts determine child support?
Children deserve to have support from both of their parents, even if that support is only financial. This is why courts typically order one parent to pay child support. It is not a punishment for the paying parent; it is not a reward for the recipient parent.Child...
Should your child go to therapy during or after a divorce?
Children don't always adjust well to changes. Some children may struggle to adapt when they move or when a loved one isn't around as often as they once were. For some, going through a divorce is a disruption that is not easily surmounted.As a parent, there can be...
Keeping the house after divorce: Is it wise?
The thought of moving into a new home after divorce can be daunting for some people. Packing up the house, looking for a new place and moving can just seem like too much to do in the wake of a stressful event. However, staying in the marital home is not always wise -...
Using technology to your advantage during and after divorce
Technology is virtually inescapable today, from the computers we use for work to the cellphones we carry with us. Even our homes are strewn with technological devices that dim our lights and lock our doors.Whether you feel nervous or excited by these advances, the...
What to know about mediating your Illinois divorce
Divorce is a difficult life event, but there are options to make the process less painful and a little more cooperative. This can be an attractive possibility for parties who are divorcing but don't want a contentious, lengthy courtroom split.One route to a more...
Using text messages in divorce court
A lot of people tend to disassociate what they put on their phone with the real world. However, the things you text and post on social media can have a profound impact on the real world, especially as you head into divorce proceedings. Text messages can...
Planning your first holiday season post-divorce
The holiday season is here. While this should be a happy time of year for people, the truth is that it can be incredibly stressful, especially for anyone navigating it for the first time after a divorce.This year, you may not see your children when you want to; your...