Your child is your pride and joy, so there is nothing worse than having to deal with his or her discontentment during divorce. You know your child isn't adjusting well, but you're not sure what to do.
You're not alone. Children don't always adjust to divorce well right away. Many struggle with the idea of a divorce and don't understand why their parents don't want to live together. Others hate the idea of custody arrangements. Some may believe that they're the cause of the divorce.
Divorcing when you have a child is undoubtedly different. Even when the split is in everyone's best interests, it can be upsetting for parents to divide time with their child. As such, determining custody and parenting time can be an emotional process.
This can be especially true if a child has a strong opinion on the parent with whom he or she wants to live. But do kids have a say in custody? Does what they want take precedent over everything else?
If your marriage is ending, you are probably experiencing a lot of overwhelming stress worrying about how to do everything correctly. The financial and emotional impacts of divorce may impact you for the rest of your life.
There are a lot of common mistakes that divorcing couples make. Here are some pitfalls you should avoid:
Say that you divorced a few years ago from your children's other parent. She has always been a high earner, making at least two times what you did. In fact, you may even have stayed at home for a while when your children were young, and that set you back a few years professionally.
When you divorced, you and your co-parent worked out your own child support and spousal maintenance agreements. Your co-parent has held up her part of the agreements. Now, however, she has quit her job and taken a lower-paying position that she says fulfills her emotionally and is less draining mentally. It does mean that she has less to contribute financially. Is this fair? Can you ask a judge to force your co-parent to get another high-paying job?
When you are facing divorce, you are probably not looking forward to the property division process.
If a family business is involved, you may already feel overwhelmed. However, the more you know about what to expect, the easier it will be to get through it.
Your animals are essential to your family. They provide comfort, entertainment and probably occasional frustration, and the idea of parting with your beloved pet is distressing. Along with decisions about how to divide money, property and possessions, pet owners must decide what to do with their companion animals.
Deciding what to do with the furry members of your family during a divorce is a difficult decision for most couples. Both spouses have cared for the animal and developed a strong attachment. Most couples decide who will be keeping the pets outside of the courtroom, but for those that cannot judges step in and make a final decision.
Divorce is an emotionally draining process, especially when it comes to the serious matter of splitting up marital property. You just want to put the whole thing behind you, but you must proceed carefully.
Some divorcing couples have significant assets, and the higher the net worth, the more opportunity there is for error. If you are in this position, here are four common mistakes to avoid.
If you and your spouse have decided to go your separate ways, you probably see property division as one of the most concerning elements of divorce.
The prenup jokes have been around as long as there have been prenups. "What do you get for a woman who has everything? A prenup." A Hollywood divorce attorney once said a celebrity who doesn't draw up a prenuptial agreement needs a psychiatrist, not a lawyer.
However, for many couples looking to get married, a prenup can be a very serious safeguard in case the marriage does not last.
The posts and pictures you share online can show up as evidence in your divorce case. If you have nothing to hide, that should not bother you.
However, if you tell the court how broke you are, you should not be posting photos of your trip to Hawaii with the new love in your life.
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